Curves Welcome: How to Stop Comparing Yourself

January 18, 2018

Curves Welcome – How to Stop Comparing Yourself

Novelist and motivational blogger Suzie Carr reflects on how we compare ourselves to others, and the damage this causes us.

 

I listened to a podcast by Brendan Burchard the other day and he said something that completely resonated. “When we compare, we stop performing our best because we are following instead of doing our own thing.”

I do believe that comparisons can be helpful if you do so with the intention to grow and learn from them.

But most of us, when we compare, we are often doing so from a viewpoint of lack and if I’m being honest, envy. Of course, this doesn’t serve us. We know it’s a dangerous game to compare ourselves because it brings about feelings of inadequacy and can seriously stunt our growth. Yet, many of us still do it.

Tune in to find out why we do this and how we can stop through a simple change in perspective.

 

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Curves Welcome: How to Improve Focus

January 4, 2018

Curves Welcome – How to Improve Focus

Novelist and motivational blogger Suzie Carr takes a look at priorities and how they play a crucial part in our life journey.

Focusing too intently on activities that aren’t related to your priorities will only cause you to move further away from it. That’s obvious, but incredibly many of us tend to forget this important fact as we go about our daily life. We are lured into the temptation of eating the wrong foods, selecting TV over exercise, procrastinating about getting our blog or books written or studying that course on finance we may have deemed as a priority. We see this neglect all the time with people who want to be active, yet they dedicate themselves to clearing out their DVD recordings by watching marathon episodes the whole day.

I’ve been there. I’ve opted to watch hours upon hours of recordings of American Idol year after year while I had big projects waiting on me to get started. Watching a star be born on American television will not help me generate revenue and put food on my table. My word count for the day will not build itself. I am not going to meet new readers or score interview opportunities if I’m parked passively in front of the television watching someone else give birth to her dream.

We’ve got this one shot at life, friends. One shot to make the most out of an incredible gift. Don’t let the distractions take you away from experiencing the satisfaction of living a life of purpose, rich with those things that open your heart and put a smile on your face.

Tune in to learn how to focus on what’s really important in your life.

 

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Curves Welcome: Turn Uncertainty into Opportunity

December 21, 2017

Curves Welcome –Turn Uncertainty into Opportunity

Novelist and motivational blogger Suzie Carr analyzes uncertainty and its powerful effect on life. She examines those who have the ability to take a bad situation and create a good outcome from it.

Uncertainty is as much a part of life as breathing. Most of us fear uncertainty on some level. We may fear things like getting into a car accident on the way to the grocery store, losing our job that we love, finding out we didn’t get that promotion we sought, missing out on a fun vacation because of a lack of funds, having our car not start on an important meeting day. You’re not alone if you’ve had these thoughts. But what makes us have these thoughts in the first place?

Some experts might say it’s out intolerance of uncertainty that causes us to fear it.

Interestingly enough, many of us view uncertainty as a bad thing. We attribute a bad outcome to its presence. But what if that uncertainty is necessary for you to get to a new place, a better place? What if these uncertain situations create good outcomes in the end?

Tune in and see how bad things can evolve into good.

 

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Curves Welcome: How to Be Attentive to the Present Moment

December 7, 2017

Curves Welcome – How to Be Attentive to the Present Moment

Novelist and motivational blogger Suzie Carr talks about one of the greatest life lessons she learned from her dogs, how to be more mindful in this chaotic world.

The greatest lessons I’ve learned in life have been through my dogs. Dogs are natural leaders, healers, and friends. Without words, without judgment, without criticism, and instead with a simple look, they know exactly how to communicate the important things in life.

One of the greatest life lessons I learned that I learned from my dogs is indulging in the present moment, or in other words, being mindful.

Dogs understand how to live in the present moment. They know how to dig in and really grasp the here and now. If we can learn how to be more mindful, we can learn how to live a better life. How to stay calm, centered and attentive to the present moment.

What do mindful people do on a daily basis to make the most out of life? Tune in the find out!

 

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Curves Welcome: Stop Forcing and Start Winning

November 23, 2017

Curves Welcome – Stop Forcing and Start Winning

Novelist and motivational blogger Suzie Carr explores failure and the disappointment that results from it. She discusses how one of her biggest failures humbled her and shaped her future.

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Curves Welcome: How to Tap into Courage

November 9, 2017

Curves Welcome – How to Tap into Courage

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr asks the following in this episode: When was the last time you did something you were afraid of? Stood up to it and said no more. Decided you were no longer willing to sacrifice your joy and your experience in this great opportunity of life just to have a backseat in the comfort zone?

  

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How To Propose To A Woman

November 6, 2017

How To Propose To A Woman

Les Talk About It

In this episode of Les Talk About it Sheena and Tamara are discussing the right way to propose to a woman.

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Sheena is the founder of The Lesbian Talk Show podcast channel and The Lesbian Review. Tamara is super smart and loves researching and together this married couple is known to get slightly off topic and laugh a lot.

Send your questions and comments to Podcast@TheLesbianTalkShow.com or visit www.TheLesbianTalkShow.com for more info about this and our other podcasts.

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Curves Welcome - What’s Eating Your Time?

October 26, 2017

Curves Welcome – What’s Eating Your Time?

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr looks at what robs us of our energy and time. She also introduces ways to cut through the clutter to help get you on the path to clarity and purpose.

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The Pros And Cons Of Coming Out - Les Talk About It

October 9, 2017

The Pros And Cons Of Coming Out - Les Talk About It 

In this episode of Les Talk About It, Sheena and Tamara chat about the pros and cons of coming out. 

 

The process of coming out

  • Coming out to yourself 
  • Coming out to your loved ones 
  • Coming out to people at work 
  • Coming out to the world at large 

 

Pros To Coming Out  

  • It is less stressful 
  • It is easier to date 
  • It allows you to be okay with yourself 
  • It helps helps you feel less different 
  • It helps you see all your allies 
  • You can become an ally to someone else 
  • Allows you to connect with other lesbians 
  • Dispel myths about lesbians 
  • Makes you feel like part of a community. 

 

Cons To Coming Out 

  • It can be dangerous 
  • You can lose your job 
  • You can find out that people who you thought were friends are actually bigots 

 

What No One Tells You About Coming Out 

Coming out is not a once off thing. You will forever be coming out. 

 

Links 

 

Our coming out story 

 

Author Clare Lydon comes out 

 

Author Kiki Archer comes out

 

Help for LGBT people  

 

The Lesbian Talk Show Facebook Group 

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Curves Welcome: Taking The High Road

September 28, 2017

Taking the High Road 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr shares ways on how to take the high road even when it seems it’s impossible. 

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Curves Welcome: The Pursuit Of Greatness

September 14, 2017

The Pursuit of Greatness

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr confesses an embarrassing mistake and how she grew from it in this episode of Curves Welcome.

 

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Curves Welcome: Is Your Attitude Worth Catching?

August 31, 2017

Curves Welcome 

Is Your Attitude Worth Catching? 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr looks at our attitude can affect others. 

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Curves Welcome: The Power To Forgive

August 17, 2017

The Power to Forgive 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr looks at how hurt and bitterness can destroy a person’s life and how learning to let go and forgive can lift her out of darkness and into a better light. 

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Les Talk About It: Do Lesbian Relationships Last?

August 14, 2017

 

Do Lesbian Relationships Last? 

In this episode of Les Talk About it Sheena and Tamara are discussing lesbian relationships. They ask the question do lesbian relationships actually last? 

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Sheena is the founder of The Lesbian Talk Show podcast channel and The Lesbian Review. Tamara is super smart and loves researching and together this married couple are known to get slightly off topic and laugh a lot. 

Send your questions and comments to Podcast@TheLesbianTalkShow.com or visit www.TheLesbianTalkShow.com for more info about this and our other podcasts. 

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Curves Welcome: How To Be A Problem Solver

August 3, 2017

How to be a Problem Solver 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr uncovers the real reason we complain and why, even though it feels so good, it hardly ever works to our advantage. She offers a better way to get what we want.  

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Les Talk About It: Are You Having An Orgasm?

July 24, 2017

 

Are You Having An Orgasm? 

More than 30% of women don't know when they are having an orgasm. The reason for this is that not everyone experiences an orgasm in the same way. 

In this episode of Les Talk About it Sheena and Tamara are discussing how to know when you are having an orgasm.  

Please note: This episode is not suitable for people who are not of a sexually consenting age. We go into details about sex. 

 

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Sheena is the founder of The Lesbian Talk Show podcast channel and The Lesbian Review. Tamara is super smart and loves researching and together this married couple are known to get slightly off topic and laugh a lot. 

Send your questions and comments to Podcast@TheLesbianTalkShow.com or visit www.TheLesbianTalkShow.com for more info about this and our other podcasts. 

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Curves Welcome: How You Make Me Feel

July 20, 2017

How You Make Me Feel 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr shares her thoughts on a popular Maya Angelou quote. She dives into a personal experience to show just how much you have the power to affect someone. 

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Les Talk About It: 9 Secrets To Wooing A Woman? (Or Maybe Not)

July 17, 2017

9 Secrets To Wooing A Woman? (Or Maybe Not)

Tamara and Sheena have found a list of nine secrets to wooing a woman. They discuss the merrits of the tips.

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Sheena is the founder of The Lesbian Talk Show podcast channel and The Lesbian Review. Tamara is super smart and loves researching and together this married couple are known to get slightly off topic and laugh a lot.

Send your questions and comments to Podcast@TheLesbianTalkShow.com or visit www.TheLesbianTalkShow.com for more info about this and our other podcasts.

 

 

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Les Talk About It: 10 Things You Should NEVER Say To A Lesbian

July 10, 2017

10 Things You Should Never Say To A Lesbian

by Sheena and Tamara

 

It is really frustrating when someone learns that you are gay and they immediately go from being a normal person to asking you things as if you are an exhibition at the zoo. 

So, for all you lesbians out there who don’t want to have to deal with this - we made this podcast so that you can play it for THOSE people. You know the ones, and maybe they will learn a little something. 

  1. If you want to be with a woman that looks like a guy then why not just be with a guy?
  2. You would look so pretty in a dress/with longer hair/with some make up on
  3. If you use a strap on then why not just date a guy?
  4. Are you a virgin?
  5. When did you become gay?
  6. I’m a lesbian too (said a guy)
  7. But you are too pretty to be a lesbian
  8. This is a phase/you will change your mind when you meet the right guy
  9. That’s so gay
  10. You are not like those other gays/you are so normal

Catch Sheena and Tamara every Monday on The Lesbian Talk Show podcast channel or email them on podcast@TheLesbianTalkShow.com 

 

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Curves Welcome: Happiness Zappers To Avoid

July 6, 2017

Curves Welcome 

Happiness Zappers to Avoid 

Novelist and Motivational Blogger Suzie Carr shares her thoughts on things that zap happiness and how to avoid them. 

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